The History of MGTOW - Men Going Their Own Way - The Official Website
"At the same time we knew that trying to present some grand plan would not work.
We both knew too much about the Men's Movement on the internet and knew that no
man would ever follow or join any major traditional movement."
The mirror was launched in late 2017 in response to Youtube's interest in removing manosphere related channels. The idea was to backup content before Youtube could delete it.
In 2018 Zeitgeist Eater was contacted by someone named "Iron John". There was a request for an online interview (voice only). After speaking with Iron John a referral to a fellow named "Solaris" was made.
What I (Zeitgeist Eater) didn't know at the time was Solaris was one of the original MGTOW founders. I received an award from them for my contributions that year (link and link). It was only afterward I found out who they actually were... by complete accident. Here I was backing up years worth of content, working to gain the support of prominent authors, and all the while a genesis-founder was already speaking with me.
Solaris is a class act and the talks with him were always insightful. I had the opportunity to quiz him on some hot button issues and share my thoughts/videos to get his take on things. I had concern my ideas were in some way harming the movement. He didn't seem to think so.
Before his retirement he made a request of me. That request was to preserve the original MGTOW founding documents. The rest of this page (above and below) are the original words of the original founding documents. The only modifcations made were modernization of the styles and removal of dead links. You may see the original version (1999 Angelfire style) here.
These documents may seem primitive in places and potent in others. Whatever your opinion of them, I believe it is important to know where we came from on the path to where we are now.
You will see references to "Mr. Orange" and "Mr. White" in the sections that follow. Solaris is one of those misters.
He believed as I did that the bodies of information should be preserved for men of the future with a preference toward decentralized distribution. This page stands in honor of his request.
Is it a cult? An airplane spotters website? Some new Tea Party type movement?...
No, it is none of those things.
MGTOW began as a result of XYZ, a very popular Men's Rights, or MRA, forum being erased
3 separate times from 2000 to 2003. Some of the members were weary of having a resource
created, populated with information and links that other people could use, and then
having that resource destroyed, over and over and over. This site has now abandoned all
MRA content and the links to the MRA content, internal and external, on the current
version of the site are all dead.
Several people who were members of the XYZ Forum created a secret forum (one we shall
not disclose) and recruited members from other forums to their new, anonymous location.
Several of them set up a time for a meeting, and two (Mr. White and Mr. Orange) showed
up at bar in 2003.
They sampled many of the fine ales and lagers and created the idea of a decentralized,
non-political movement that would support men and their choices in the face of
widespread scorn, indifference and hostility. The next day they met at Mr. Orange's
hotel suite and fleshed out the idea some more, sketched a logo, and a framework of
sorts. Since it began as a decentralized 'organization' it has no leader, no official
message board, no website (although many have websites and forums that support it's
ideals), there is no 'there, there' to organize, attack, censor, eliminate or shame
into submission.
It is everywhere and nowhere.
We decided to place this simple webpage as a marker to the MGTOW concept, as most
online Wiki's and other member-edited content-based sites will not allow the posting of
its message.
If you wish to discuss the MGTOW Philosophy, its means, goals and intentions, please log
on to our forum website(dead link).
{Mr. White speaking}: So Mr. Pink he funded the secret forum, it existed for a year or
so as we planned the creation of MGTOW. Then Mr. Orange and Mr. White met for a secret
conference in an undisclosed location presented our draft to the secret forum members
and behold...MGTOW was created. We had another site called "XXX" as well that was the
public one to extract members to the secret forum, as well as recruit from XXX' s forum
Mr. Brown knows this as well, we recruited him, also Mr. Blue was recruited from his
own site. So from the secret forum we took MGTOW public to Mr. Blue's forum and XXX's
via Mr. Orange mainly.
We had about 70 members in the secret forum Mr. White we would just recruit them from
other forums no, the secret forum no longer exists
Mr. Orange, Mr. Blonde, Mr. Blue, Mr. Pink and myself - the founders really
It was in the planning after the XXX forum collapsed about 2003 or early 2004, Mr.
Orange and Mr. White met to formulize it and so on and so forth. Mr. Orange invented
the Roadsign as well - it was presented on the secret forum and approved.
Mr. Orange: "We cannot put any political items on the list. No matter how much
I'd like to promote some ideas."
Mr. White: "No that would make the whole thing into a rightwing-leftwing
matter."
{Mr. Orange speaking}: Maybe I ought to comment a little. The meeting between Mr. White
and Mr. Orange actually started as a sort of a MRA congress suggested on another site.
Mr. White and Mr. Orange ended up being the only ones there and we had a great time. We
both wanted to come up with something, so the meeting would have a result. At the same
time we knew that trying to present some grand plan would not work. We both knew too
much about the Men's Movement on the internet and knew that no man would ever follow or
join any major traditional movement.
So we had dinner and talked, took a cab to a place famous for it's beers, and worked
our way through their beer list - more or less, while talking about the men's movement
and what information we have read on the various forums - the XXX burndown and so on,
and got pretty loaded. Time passed so fast, but we decided to have a conference the
next morning and meet in the suite Mr. White rented.
The next morning we continued like the evening before - in a very good mood - there was
so much to talk about, and I can bullshit for days if need be...then Mr. White put the
hammer down;
Mr. White: "We need to get down to business!"
Mr. Orange: "Sure!"
Mr. White: "We need to instill masculinity in men!"
Mr. Orange: "Let that be the first point and then we must demand femininity of women!"
Mr. White: "Who gives a **** about women!"
Mr. Orange: "It's the logical consequence of instilling masculinity in men."
Mr. White: "There must be a serious business like approach to this, like selling a
product and this is our product!"
Mr. White started to put the items on paper...
Mr. Orange: "We cannot put any political items on the list. No matter how much I'd like
to promote some ideas."
Mr. White: "No that would make the whole thing into a rightwing-leftwing matter. Let's
continue with some subpoints to each main point and go from there."
{Mr. Orange speaking}: It's only the beginning of the meeting I can recall that
clearly. What follows is a lot of talk, suggesting and disregarding a lot of other
things. These are the notes Mr. White wrote!
The last items of the meeting, were the name of the product and a possible sign or
logo. We discussed some ideas and decided to postpone the logo and see what came up.
The name! Only a few men want to join a movement. The internet is so diffuse when it
comes to reality, everybody is just going their own way. Hmmm . . . we might use that,
call it WAY OUT or GOING YOUR OWN WAY or something like it. (The term men going their
own way - MGTOW - was actually first used by Mr. Blonde.) The meeting basicly ended
here and I promised to type Mr. White's notes and post them.
After having posted the WAY OUT 'product' nothing really happened for a long time. Mr.
White and Mr. Orange emailed each other a few times about the lack of response. Slowly
a few men started to comment and discuss, some of them liked the idea but had a lot of
additions and changes to suggest. Mr. White and Mr. Orange decided to stand firm on not
diluting it but keeping it to the original basics and avoid pulling it to the left or
to the right politically. In the mean time I could not help but ponder about a logo.
These are Mr. Orange's scriblings about the logo:
MGTOW is not a philosophy, or an "-ism", but rather an evolving consciousness and
way of looking at the world.
{Mr. Orange speaking}: Fortunately I knew someone who worked in advertising and public
relations for a major company - can't tell you which, he is very sensitive about
getting involved in this because of the feminization of all workplaces where he lives.
Anyway he gave me some input about using a simple logo, something people would think
they recognise although it doesn't really exist, except as our logo. We didn't need to
bother about copyright if we do not try to copyright it ourselves.
Something like this sign could be used:
It's everywhere!
Then I got the roadsign idea after looking at a number of signs and made a crude design
like the one we got today. Of course I was aware of the connotations, but, what the
heck, we are MEN and I refuse to be ashamed about that! If women find this abusive,
then I will answer: 'We will abuse you - by your own definition - because this is how
we are. The only way to stop this kind of abuse is to drop your stupid definition of
abuse.' Well that's how the logo came to be. A lot of men here have refined it and made
their own versions, which are really fine.
The same goes for the MGTOW manifesto. If you do not like it, then make your own, but
remember the version we have today has been worked upon and refined by many of the best
MRA minds. So don't blame Mr. White and me for everything, a lot of men have been
involved.
MGTOW is not a philosophy, or an "-ism", but rather an evolving consciousness and way
of looking at the world. Unlike the lockstep and dogma of so many contemporary
movements, MGTOW is entirely individualistic, even though many men may arrive at the
same conclusions from having observed the same phenomena.
Tuesday, 09 May 2006
MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY ver. 2.2
The goal is to instill masculinity in men, femininity in women, and work toward limited
government!
By instilling masculinity in men, we make men self-reliant, proud, and independent.
By instilling femininity in women, we make them nurturing, supporting, and responsible.
By working for a limited government, we are working for freedom and justice.
Women having other qualities is not interesting to men because we don't need them!
Femininity will be the price women pay for enjoying masculinity in men!
This is the aim of "Men Going Their Own Way".
By holding this point of view, we are helping other men and, more importantly, we are
helping boys grow up to become men.
This goal is to take away everyone's "right" to vote on other people's affairs thus
rendering it impossible for political organisms and ideologies to impose their personal
will on everyone else. It is not about reinstalling patriarchy or revoking female
voting rights or making socialism illegal. It might have this as a side effect - but
not directly and not as a political ideology. Only the future will show what happens
and by going our own way we are preparing men and boys for that future.
It is important for men to have a practical approach to implementing our strategies.
We have three main strategies:
1. Instilling masculinity in Men by:
Demanding respect for men.
Serving as good male role models.
Living independent lives.
Fighting chivalry.
2. Instilling femininity in Women:
We will hold women equally accountable to men and ignore and shun those who refuse to
take any responsibility for their own circumstances. Thus we induce women to take a
complementary position with men instead of a competitive position as is now the case.
Feminine qualities we want from Women:
Being a Nurturer.
Being Supportive.
Being Responsible.
Being Respectful.
Being Honest.
3. Limited government:
In order to be independent of society, and live within it, while at the same time work
for limiting governmental influence upon our daily lives, men will:
Go Their Own Way.
Support other men.
Legally reduce any taxpaying.
Truthfully act out any duties in accordance with their conscience.
Use any of their rights to the benefit of other men as well as themselves.
It is those three strategies - Instilling masculinity in Men, instilling femininity in
Women, and a limited government -- that come together and become one.
Every man supporting this idea is welcome to use the logo in this or similar contexts.
What we do as activism or the way we behave personally are the main tactics.
Use of a logo which symbolizes the strategy.
Run one or more web-sites and forums that promotes this.
Run one or more web-sites which tells the truth about feminism.
Provide stickers, T-shirts, etc., with various statements such as "Chivalry is
dead!".
Writing articles supporting our product.
Producing music promoting our product.
Hold international events and local meetings.
Establishing men's clubs.
Boycotting certain products.
You will basically be alone doing this. There is no organization supporting you. You
just go your own way and do what you believe is right. You are never obligated beyond
your own conscience. True masculinity is also about accepting the rights of other men
and not letting them down for any short term personal benefits.
The men's movement does actually cover a much larger picture. By instilling masculinity
in others, as well as yourself, you will actually be improving the lives of everyone,
including women and children.
IF IT'S NOT RIGHT, GO YOUR OWN WAY!
Take care brother!
The MGTOW logo:
In addition to respecting the privacy of all those involved in the creation of the
MGTOW concept, logo and manifesto, the various forums wished to remain anonymous as
well. MGTOW and its supporters tend to be looked upon with scorn by the Politically
Correct segments of society - Leftists, bloggers, Feminists, those who wish to control
the thoughts, speech and actions of others - and have encountered many dirty tricks
campaigns over the past 15 years.
That is why all of the names have been changed, there are no links to the original
content, and why the only 'real' name on the page is that of the author, yours truly.